New Mom's Guide to Leaving Baby For the First Time
Leaving baby for the first time can be overwhelming and terrifying, but it doesn't have to feel that way. You'll need some tricks up your sleeve when you take on this brave new world of solo parenting - like knowing what kind or situation would make things easier (and not!) if they're with someone else who isn’t family members!
Most children understand that their parents have to go away at some point, and they're able adapt more easily when it’s not the first time. Children grow up knowing how important independence is for them too!
I think most preteens can handle leaving home now since you've been gone before--they may even ask if there's anything else new coming over soon so I don't seem like "just" an adult who takes care of babies all day long ;)
LEAVING A NEWBORN FOR THE FIRST TIME
I was and still am a huge believer in breastfeeding your baby, but sometimes life happens. If you’re getting ready to go somewhere where it is not possible or just need some time away from them for mental health purposes then follow these 5 steps below!
WHEN IS IT OKAY TO LEAVE A BABY FOR THE FIRST TIME?
How long you can leave your new baby for the first time really depends on if they are breast or formula fed (or both). The most important thing to consider when determining this is that babies should not go more than 4-5 hours without eating, and most will eat much sooner than this.
Whether you are breastfeeding or formula feeding, the most important thing for baby is that they get fed. So if mom can't leave her post during a feed period because of work commitments/school schedules etc., then pumping AND bottle-feeding might be an option - but remember: check with your helper beforehand about whether this would actually make things easier on them too!
When I left my 2nd overnight baby with her dad, she was only 7 months old and we needed to have an emergency surgery. But despite him offering the bottle MANY times - AND going out of his way buy formula so that he could feed it too-the little girl outright refused! It broke both our hearts in such different ways: mine because now there are no more mornings without worry or fear; theirs because they had practically raised this child from birth (even though sometimes accidents happen).
The most important thing to do when you're away from your baby for an extended period of time is make sure they won't go hungry. To ensure this, bring food with you or ask a friend who has some extra in their kitchen (just be careful not let them eat anything themselves!)
HOW DO YOU LEAVE YOUR BABY FOR THE FIRST TIME?
One of the most difficult things about leaving your baby for a few hours or days is getting past those first moments after they’ve been born. You may feel nervous, overwhelmed and tender in ways that make it hard to think straight. But here are some practical tips on how you can prepare yourself before actually taking care of YOUR needs first!
1) BE RIDICULOUSLY PICKY WITH CHILDCARE
You might think that leaving your baby with someone else is going to be the easy option, but I recommend against it. You should always choose family members or friends you know well and trust instead of hiring a daycare center employee for this first time experience- if there are no other options available then do some research on prospective sitters until we find one excellent reference!
2) DO A “PRACTICE” RUN
When you’ve chosen / found the perfect person to take care of your baby while away, make sure that they are able and willing.
It's time for us all to tighten our belts- literally! As hard as it may sound at first (and believe me; this will be challenging), try leaving some food out in case anything goes wrong with appliances or electricity outlets around town etc., but don't worry too much about what might happen because no matter how bad things get -you'll always know where we live now right?
4) BE OVER-PREPARED
If you’re feeling more comfortable knowing that baby has everything they need and then some, make sure to pack their emergency kit. Most importantly for this list: include written instructions on what contact person or parent should do in case of an urgent situation!
5) TAKE YOUR TIME LEAVING
Taking your time and making sure the baby is adjusted will help you feel better
It's natural to want nothing more than spend some one-onone quality bonding with their new little person, but taking care of themselves before leaving can really pay off. Remember: It may seem like an instant task at first glance - after all babies have been left for short periods before right? But this isn't always easy on either party!
6) START WHILE THEY’RE YOUNG
Some people feel like they can’t leave their baby for the first time when he or she is just born because it will make them look bad as a parent, but I actually think that leaving early is easier on both you and the child. You won't have to deal with all those feelings of stress during your bonding period; instead there'll be no tears from either one- potentially making things way more peaceful in general!
There is no need to rush out for baby-sitting right away, but if your two year old has never spent time with grandparents or favorite caregivers then they may resist being left.
What better way than starting while the kids are young so it's easier when they're older!
Conclusion paragraph: The first time you leave your baby can be a nerve-wracking experience, but it doesn’t have to be. With a little preparation and some helpful tips, you can ease your mind and feel confident that your baby is in good hands. We hope this guide has been helpful for you as you take the next step in your journey as a new mom. For more information on leaving your baby or any other parenting topics, please visit our website or reach out to us on social media. And don’t forget to stock up on organic calm drops by calmamama to help keep yourself relaxed and stress-free during this exciting but challenging time!
